But one by one, I lost faith in these so-called heroes. As I grew older, I found out they were not as perfect as I imagined. They committed crimes, were immoral or were not even real. It became difficult to call them my heroes because I felt some need to justify their hero-status to myself and others. It was hard to say I admired them EVEN THOUGH ______ (you fill in the blank).



Examples of indiscretions by heroes abound. Alex Rodriquez took steroids, Miley Cirus posed for racy pictures in Vanity Fair, and Michael Phelps was caught using a bong to smoke marijuana. All of these actions can cause fans, especially youngsters, to question their devotion to their idols.
In the article by Jenny Lyn Bader in the text, it says,"Heroes have become quaint, as old-fashioned as gas-guzzlers--and unwieldy, requiring too much investment and energy. Role models are more like compact cars, less glam and room but easier to handle." (p. 790)
I agree with this quote. I think that for the most part, our cynical nature has caused us to phase the traditional heroes out of our lives and replace them with people we know personally. We know these people are not perfect, but know they can't be as bad as the other guys we formerly idolized. Admiring these people requires less emotional investment because we know their character. Our class activity yesterday illustrated this point.
Hollywood understands this shift, and is making efforts to put forth character witnesses for up-and-coming stars. The other night I saw a few minutes of American Idol and was surprised to see the families of contestants backstage being interviewed immediately after each performance. I saw mothers saying, "I'm so proud of my son, even if he didn't do well," and "My daughter is just such a great person." Other examples of such testimony abound on TV.
So here are my questions to you: Has your hero ever let you down? Do you still idolize your heroes from your childhood? If not, who are your new heroes?



